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DIVORCE SUPPORT AND RECOVERY

Heal and move forward in weeks, not years

 

Led by therapists:

Bob Manthy, MS, MA, LPCC

Shea Karam, MA, LPC, LMFT, LAC

Kathy Kahn, MA, LPC, CAC II, PLCC

 

Our large classes form lasting bonds.

Feel better and move forward in a supportive community.

 

Since 1993, Rebuilding Seminars

has helped thousands heal and gain confidence.

Welcome to

Rebuilding Seminars

Move forward with the support of new friends

Rebuilding is one of the best things I’ve done for myself since my divorce. I learned so much about myself, the process, and especially that I am not alone on this journey. An invaluable experience!

Programs Clinically Proven to Help Rebuilders More Than They Ever Imagined

Feel Better.  Move forward.
Rebuilding Seminars has helped thousands begin a new, healthier chapter in life.
Our group process is both rapid and effective — we heal together in community. Lifelong friendships are made between members in every session.

Rebuilding is the antidote to the isolation that can often accompany
a relationship’s end.

How Rebuilding Works 

Assess. Get the tools. Rebuild.

SELF ASSESS
Take the Bruce Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale Profile to assess yourself and get clear feedback about where you are in the recovery process.
REBUILDING WORKSHOP

Our Workshops are a peek into what the Rebuilding Seminar offers, providing you with tools to take away and begin using immediately.

REBUILDING SEMINAR

Our 10-week seminar begins with healing and recovery from relationship loss, and then moves to uncovering the self-worth necessary for confidence and healthier future relationships.

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Narcissistic Abuse
Support Group
with Kathy Kahn, LPC, CAC II, PLCC

Overview and Options for
Legal Separation and Divorce in Colorado

Meets twice a month on Wednesdays from 6-7:30pm Location: Central Denver (the specific location will only be disclosed to members) Monthly Membership is $99 which includes bi-weekly groups and monthly newsletter with resources. Email Kathy to schedule an intake to discuss the details of the group and determine whether it is a good fit for you.
Sunday, Jan 15th, 3:30-4:40p, Left Hand Grange, Niwot Learn about the Conscious Family Mediation Process to create fair and equitable agreements that support all members of a family, even if trust between the spouses is compromised and discussions are tense. An alternative to conflict-inducing separate attorneys.

Narcissistic Abuse Support Group

 

Narcissistic Abuse Support Group
Meets twice a month on Wednesdays from 6-7:30 pm
Location: Central Denver (the specific location will only be disclosed to members)
Monthly Membership is $99, including bi-weekly groups and a monthly newsletter with resources.
Email kathy@rebuildingseminars.com to schedule an intake to discuss the details of the group and determine whether it is a good fit for you.
John C. Hoelle, Co-Founder of Conscious Family Law & Mediation, is a collaboratively trained lawyer and mediator who has focused exclusively on family law since 2011. He will provide an overview and answer questions on options for legal separation and divorce in Colorado. Conscious Family is an innovative law firm formed in 2014 in Boulder, Colorado, with a mission to change how people divorce. Conscious Family attorneys are dedicated to guiding families navigating legal divorce compassionately and efficiently. The Conscious Family mediation process helps couples create fair and equitable agreements that support all members of a family to thrive, even if trust between the spouses is compromised and discussions are tense, all at a fraction of the cost of hiring separate divorce lawyers.set up a short meeting to You can set up a meeting with John to discuss your situation by adding it to his calendar here: https://calendly.com/jchmediation/one-to-one-meeting
4-Pack Private Rebuilding Counseling
Rebuilding Reprise – Offer for RB Graduates Only Retake the Rebuilding Seminar Has it been a while since your breakup, and you haven't moved on as far as you like? You are moving forward, and are now ready to FLY?? Are you interested…

4-Pack Private Rebuilding Counseling

 $400.00

Supercharge your Rebuilding experience by adding four (4) 50-minute direct Rebuilding Counseling sessions at a discounted rate (normally $125/hr).  In addition to facilitating Rebuilding Seminars, our independent counselors have years of private practice experience helping people move quickly and permanently through divorce, separation, and loss. They are available for private sessions by phone, Zoom, or FaceTime to help you feel better and move forward today.

4-pack pricing is a one-time offer available only to those registered for the Rebuilding Seminar.

Rebuilding Reprise – Offer for RB Graduates Only

$575

Retake the Rebuilding Seminar

Has it been a while since your breakup, and you haven’t moved on as far as you like? You are moving forward, and are now ready to FLY?? Are you interested in reconnecting with the Rebuilding Seminars community and forming bonds with a new class? Join us, we’d love to have you.

Enroll now to reserve your spot. For more information call Rebuilding Seminars at 720-600-2763 or Contact Us

RB Graduate Men’s Group – accepting new members now Men's groups are more powerful than I could have imagined. I am facilitating this new RB Men’s group to provide structure, safety, and accelerate progress. When: Bi-weekly on Monday, 6-8p MT, starting Jan 30th, 2023…
Dating Foundations Seminar 6 Weeks: Thursdays, April 20th-May 25. Hybrid: In-person in Niwot (Week 1) and over Zoom 6:30 - 9p MST End dating whiplash. Learn how to attract the love that honors you and build the right...

RB Graduate Men’s Group – accepting new members now

$20.00

Men’s groups are more powerful than I could have imagined. I am facilitating this new RB Men’s group to provide structure, safety, and accelerate progress.

When: Bi-weekly on Monday, 6-8p MT, starting Jan 30th, 2023
Where: In-person/Zoom hybrid
$20 for the intro session on Jan 30th.
$40/month facilitation fee starting Feb 2023.

This RB-only Men’s Group will explore what it means to be a man and will provide support to one another as we live into our masculinity.  Together, we will strengthen our integrity and become more purposeful.  Join us to address the challenges in our lives and love relationships.

12 participants maximum.

RB Graduate Men’s Group

Our RB-only Men’s Group explores what it means to be a man and provides support to one another as we live into our masculinity.  Together, we will strengthen our integrity and become more purposeful.  Join us to address the challenges in our lives and love relationships.

I am sponsoring the RB Men’s group because of how important and positive they have been in my life and the lives of others in the group. Within a few months, our trust and vulnerability solidified, allowing us each to bring what is real for us into the room. After about six months, each of us has noticeably and specifically evolved into our masculinity. I invite you to join your RB brothers in our masculine quest.

A great starting point is to read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover. “If I am a nice guy, then everyone will love me and like me.”  Why doesn’t this contract hold true?  Why don’t we get the love we want when we give so much to others?  Dr. Robert Glover has dubbed the “Nice Guy Syndrome” as trying too hard to please others while neglecting one’s own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. Exploring the “nice guy” syndrome in our lives and the path forward is a recurring theme in the men’s group.  We will provide a safe and confidential environment to explore the masculine and how the covert contracts of the “nice guy” lead us astray.

Please contact bob@rebuildingseminars.com for more information, or sign up here.

Testimonials

“Joining a men’s group has been one of the best decisions I’ve made in my personal healing journey. Something magical happens when compassionate, honest and committed men can share with one another the unique challenges that we all face in finding our true selves and how we relate to the world and our partners. I see this group being part of my life for a very long time. I already see the change and growth in myself and the other men in the group in less than a year! We support and challenge one another to be true to ourselves. Why is this not mandatory for the modern man???”

“The RB Men’s Group is a highlight of my week, connecting with other men as we explore together what it means to be a man, friend, and human. The changes I have noticed in each of us in a short amount of time is nothing but staggering. It is my deepest hope that all men (and humans) have such an impactful and meaningful group as this one.”

“The connections I’ve formed in this group have given me confidence and perspective that I can carry into all of my relationships. It’s a place to openly share thoughts and feelings, to challenge each other, and grow.”

“After my divorce, family and friends were supportive but I didn’t feel anyone really understood. There were times I felt as though I was in a world all by myself. The RB Men’s Group has helped me by connecting with men I believe understand me, men who are working on themselves and willing to share those experiences, and men that want to be accountable and hold me accountable in life’s journey. What started out as some bi-weekly meeting has turned into a solid support system that I value and rely on.”

Dating Foundations Seminar

 $499.00

6 Weeks: Thursdays, April 20th-May 25.
Hybrid: In-person in Niwot (Week 1) and over Zoom
6:30 – 9p MST

End dating whiplash. Learn how to attract the love that honors you and build the right relationship.

You have completed the Rebuilding Seminar, joined a supportive community, and soon you will be ready to consider growing relationships. Before jumping in, you might ask yourself:

Are you ready to build a solid foundation before starting a new growing relationship?
Do you want to learn how to follow attractions of inspiration rather than patterns of deprivation?
You’ve taken off your mask. Are you ready to uncover who exactly is the authentic self that needs to shine?
Would you like to create a roadmap for a healthy emotional and sexual relationship?
Do you want a weekly forum to ask questions and get coaching about dating and growing relationships?

It doesn’t matter where you are on the journey of relationships, this course is a must if you want to deepen your understanding of yourself. A thorough journey of self-awareness and opportunities for self-growth. It left me feeling confident and connected! – Dating Foundations Graduate

Need more information? Call Rebuilding Seminars at 720.600.2763 or Contact Us

$100 early bird discount ends 2/20/23

Sad woman at relationship's end
Donate a 50% RB Scholarship Give an RB scholarship to help someone in need at this most difficult time.

Your gift to a person whose relationship has ended could save a life and will certainly open a window to recovery and a new life. Our experience is a 50% scholarship ensures the recipient is fully invested in the seminar. Let us know if you would like to add specific criteria to the award decision process. Sparrow and Bob will select scholarship recipients and inform you when it is awarded. A thank you will be posted in the RB newsletter unless you prefer to be anonymous.

When your relationship ends

FEEL BETTER • MOVE FORWARD

Rebuilding Seminars was absolutely the best time and financial investment in myself, ever! This program meets you right where you are in the rebuilding process. It doesn’t matter if you are just getting started or got stuck somewhere along the way. - Rebuilding Seminars graduate

FIRST NIGHT IS FREE. GIVE IT A TRY!

Boulder

REBUILDING SEMINAR

Sundays 5-8p, Jan 8–Mar 12
ENROLLING NOW 
with Facilitators Bob Manthy and Shea Karam
in Niwot, CO

Denver

REBUILDING SEMINAR

Mondays 6-9p, Feb 27–May 15
ENROLLING NOW
with Facilitator Kathy Kahn
in Denver, CO

Zoom

REBUILDING SEMINAR

July 2023
ENROLLING NOW
with Facilitators Bob Manthy and Shea Karam Join us from wherever you are this summer

Does the Rebuilding System

Really Work?

Dr. Bruce Fisher, author of “Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends” performed research leading him to imagine a mountain climb that guided a 10-week process, leading members from Denial to Freedom. Becoming more validated and open with their reactions and feelings, members move to a truer awareness of themselves. The Freedom Mountain Top points to the building of a more whole, confident self.

  The support and encouragement I received from everyone…the facilitators, the volunteers and my classmates…Rebuilding is invaluable in moving on with your life, making wonderful new friends and having hope for the future.
Happy Client
Rebuilding Seminars was the best thing I did for myself as I began my separation. It helped rebuild my self-esteem and helped me to have hope.

Winter 2022 graduate

This seminar far exceeded all expectations I had. I’ve made lifelong friends, am happier than I’ve been in years, and cannot imagine where I’d be if I hadn’t taken this seminar. I can’t recommend it highly enough!

SUMMER 2017 GRADUATE

I was hesitant to sign up for Rebuilders because I was six years post-divorce and one year out of a 2 ½ year long relationship. I simply wasn’t sure if the program was going to be the right fit for me. It was absolutely the best time and financial investment in myself ever! This program meets you right where you are in the rebuilding process. The co-facilitators are knowledgeable, caring and very supportive. The volunteers who have been through the program and care enough to give back and share their experiences and support along the way are such an asset. I walked away stronger, more self-aware, confident, and happier than I have been in a very long time. I also walked away with over a dozen new friends. We worked the program together and will continue to not only support one another but have fun as we do life together.

Fall 2021 graduate

An Essential process that offers  support for this huge life transition! Don’t go at it alone. Join Rebuilding Seminars whether you are recently separated or divorced many years ago, it will help you either way!
SPRING 2020 GRADUATE
  I can’t imagine going through a divorce without having taken Rebuilding. It has been an invaluable resource for me. You become very close to people with whom you share such personal stories, and the ongoing support and care is of immeasurable value to me. Worth every penny! In addition to the group support, the content of the class is helpful as well. It helps you deal with the emotional aspects of a divorce in a healthy way, so you can move on. I’m grateful that a friend recommended this class, and I will pass on the favor by recommending it to my friends in the future.

fall 2021 graduate

This is just the beginning for me.

I will be forever grateful for Rebuilding Seminars at this crossroads in my life.

Join our Compassionate Community

Assess. Explore. Enroll.

HOW ARE YOU DOING?

Assess:

Take our free self-test and see how loss affects you.

HOW TO GET STARTED

Explore:
Your transition process.

RESET YOUR LIFE

Enroll:
In workshops and programs with proven results.

I wish I could tell you exactly what makes this class work so well. Honestly, the other graduates and I stand around talking about it and the one thing we land on every time is how grateful we are for showing up. Seriously, since my last relationship ended…it’s the single most helpful thing I’ve done to help me move forward and make my life better.

Frequently Asked Questions

Please give us a call or use the Contact Us page if you would like to discuss how Rebuilding Seminars can help you move forward in your specific situation.  Participants range from those long divorced. to those in the middle of the divorce process, to those considering separation or still living under the same roof.

Many local counselors actively refer their clients to Rebuilding Seminars, and likewise, many Rebuilders augment the program with private counseling.  We call this “supercharging the experience.”  See the Facilitators page to make an appointment with our staff.

Each 10-week class is served by a team of volunteers, men and women nominated by their own peers and classmates, to make sure your Rebuilding experience is the best possible. By facilitating small groups, coordinating refreshments, and providing a variety of outside activities, the volunteers help energize and deepen your Rebuilding experience. Because they have gone through the Seminar themselves, they are able to understand and relate to your own process.

Although optional, our social activities can be nearly as powerful as the classes, helping your confidence to grow in a safe social setting. This is one secret of Rebuilding, helping people re-enter the single sub-culture. Hiking and other outdoor events, dinner and a movie, or a favorite activity you may suggest – we help set it up and make it fun. These gatherings are also a great place to talk with your classmates and share personal situations.

One of the great benefits of Rebuilding is the potential of friendships. If you choose to, it is quite likely that you will make one or more lasting friendships from your class. More, after graduation, you will be invited to join the greater Rebuilding community. We are hundreds of adults who have done this work and enjoy activities coupled with authentic conversation. Activities posted on our private meetup range from include a weekly happy hour, afternoon bike ride, weeknight book club, the RB Band, and frequent potlucks with new friends. Hundreds of Rebuilders turn out for our Giant Summer Picnic and the Annual Holiday Ball. We include a mix of events that are kid-friendly.

Rebuilding has delivered clinically-proven results to thousands of graduates over the years, including doctors and lawyers, therapists and judges, single parents and job-seekers — many diverse people, who successfully complete our confidential Seminar.

 

Sign up for the next Rebuilding Seminar even if you must miss a class or two. We offer free make-up classes in the next session. This is very common and we will make this work for you!

Your End-of-Relationship Support Team

Assess. Get the tools. Rebuild.

 

BOB MANTHY, LPCC, OWNER

Bob leads Rebuilding with a passion to help others move forward and not repeat tired patterns, and to do so within a supportive and lasting community. Bob has a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology and has helped thousands climb together to freedom and confidence since 2009. Bob offers private counseling to help you through the Rebuilding process. He also leads Rebuilding Men’s Groups focused on relationships and positive masculinity.

CONTACT BOB

SHEA KARAM, LPC, LAC, LMFT

Shea took Rebuilding in 2014 and returned in 2019 as the co-creator and co-facilitator with Bob of the Rebuilding Dating Foundation Seminar graduate program. Shea also co-facilitates the Rebuilding Seminar and leads our volunteer team. Shea is a practicing individual and family therapist specializing in relationship distress, trauma resolution, anxiety, depression, and self-harming behaviors.

CONTACT SHEA

KATHY KAHN, LPC, CAC II, PLCC Kathy took Rebuilding in 2014 and has been facilitating Rebuilding in the Denver area since 2016. Now joined with Rebuilding Seminars, Kathy will extend the reach of our both Seminars and our Graduate community into the southern Front Range. Kathy offers psychotherapy for a range of issues including emotional difficulties, mental health, and relationship issues.
OUR VOLUNTEERS Volunteers are the heart and soul of Rebuilding Seminars. They will support you in your small group work, at our social activities, and act as your advocates throughout the Rebuilding process. All of our volunteers are RB graduates who have experienced what you will encounter during our Seminars.
SPARROW GABRIEL, ADMINISTRATOR Sparrow supports participants in making each seminar a positive experience, from first joining our program to connecting with graduate activities. She is a graduate of the Rebuilding Seminar and is happy to share about the transformation she experienced for herself and the group as a whole.

Google Reviews

The Rebuilding Seminar was the best thing I did for myself as I began my separation. It has helped rebuild my self-esteem, and helped me to have hope.

Carol Barrow Avatar Carol Barrow
January 12, 2022

If you want to be a better human post-divorce please take this course. You'll thank your future self

Brett Ochs Avatar Brett Ochs
January 12, 2022

This program is amazing! The content and structure led me though processing the grief and loss of divorce. In the process I gained an incredible support group and friends for long past the end of classes. I think everyone who has experienced divorce or death of a loved one would benefit greatly from participating.

Amy Hocking Avatar Amy Hocking
December 12, 2021

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Welcome To The #1 Most Comprehensive Divorce Recovery Program In The World. For 40 Years. We’ve helped thousands of people across Colorado, the United States, and Canada!

 

Seminar Address

195 Second Ave., Niwot, CO 80544

Email

General inquiries – rebuilding@rebuildingseminars.com
Bob Manthy, owner – bob@rebuildingseminars.com
Registration – sparrow@rebuildingseminars.com

Phone

720-600-2763

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